99% of the time people will hurt you UNINTENTIONALLY, some will rip your soul out "unintentionally", that doesn't mean that you should let em. To an extent those who unintentionally hurt you have had their intentions preoccupied. Sometimes intending not to hurt someone reduces the chances of you unintentionally hurting them because you are aware of your actions at a deeper level. Sometimes those who unintentionally hurt you often actually were not intending to avoid it either. Still not blame them, blame yourself, clear your expectations and then stick by them, all those that cant fit in your life will slide past, bang their heads and move on. Someone always comes along who fits. Whatever kind of people you are into, ,'they exist'. The world is full of weird ass people, you will find your kind of weird. Be yourself and let em know what you are.